That’s why you psychologically damage yourself and block yourself from truly getting that love you want and deserve.ĭon’t grasp at straws here. If you tell yourself it’s because you’re unlovable or unworthy, that’s when you lose. Sometimes it just isn’t a match and that’s OK. I know you want to love him back to life but he needs to heal on his own. If he’s getting over a breakup then it really isn’t personal. ![]() MORE: Signs He Doesn’t Like You So what should you do? How do you get over this?įirst recognize it isn’t personal. Because he just isn’t on the same page as you. You’re trying to help him get past whatever hump is preventing him from committing to you in the way you want.īut you can’t. You’re giving him your time, your attention, your body, your love. What is he really giving you aside from temporary shots of validation when he does or says something that seems to indicate he likes you? What are you really getting out of this? We give our time, our attention, our heart, our emotions, our energy. I’m not talking about gifts, I’m talking about giving of himself because when we truly care about someone, we give to them. He enjoys hanging out with you … it feels nice, it strokes his ego, it’s fun, so he doesn’t want to let you go. So why send signals at all? Why not just break things off or ignore you? Because he does like you a little bit. My motto about mixed signals is this: mixed signals are one clear signal- he doesn’t want to be with you. The point is, his behavior is inconsistent and confusing. You can call this being wishy-washy or playing hot and cold or being on and off. OK, now so let’s get into the signs he likes you but doesn’t want anything serious. ![]() If he doesn’t want a relationship, and that’s what you want, then this isn’t a situation you should be in unless you want to get your heart seriously broken … because that is how these things usually end. And it’s also possible that he just doesn’t like you enough to be in a relationship with you. It’s possible he just doesn’t want to commit to anyone at this stage in his life. It’s possible that he is getting over a breakup, and he just can’t handle getting back into something serious again.
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